As one of the first few things you say to her?

Yes and no.

I personally don't recommend you say those exact words but I highly recommend going direct.

What I mean by 'direct' is by making your intentions clear.

Now, there is a spectrum to going direct.

It can be as simple as saying you think she looks 'nice'...

Which I personally think is weak.

On the other end is what you've said - telling her you want to fuck her.

I prefer a middle ground and a lot of the times I tell a girl:

You are gorgeous.

It's not some weak-ass shit where guys try to hide their feelings for a girl...

And it isn't as high risk as telling her you want to fuck (more on this shortly).

You see, just by telling her you think she's gorgeous - you are implying you want to fuck her.

You are being a man and clearly stating your intent, which is awesome.

The issue with telling her you want to fuck her is it can come across as socially awkward...

...especially if it's in public and others can hear you.

Guys have come to me after paying thousands to another dating coach who told them to do that very thing...

And while I actually think it's a good exercise to do for pushing your comfort zones...

I think it's a bad strategy.

99%of the time - she'll be more worried about who heard or who is around.

Even if she wants to fuck you...

Her social conditioning will kick in and she will do whatever she can to preserve her image...

Including rejecting you.

This is why many girls won't go home with a guy if they're out with certain friends - because they don't want to be labeled as the slut of the group.

However - if you choose to go direct and tell her she's gorgeous...

It's socially acceptable, implies you want to fuck her...

And it won't make her social conditioning 'slut shield' kick in.

This lets her be more open with the interaction whilst you can advance the conversation.

In the early days of me going direct...

I was in Vegas and walked up to one of the hottest women I'd ever seen.

I was so sure she was going to blow me out...

I told her she was gorgeous and her response was sooo positive...

It was crazy.

She was winking at me... giving me a sly 'I want to fuck you smile'...

The works.

After 5 minutes I told her to come get a drink with me and she did.

All my friends were looking in awe and texting in the whatsapp group...

'daaammmn she's hoootttttt'.

Yes, she was.

An absolute 10/10.

After a few more minutes I kissed her...

Then I took her arm and walked to the taxi stand and we drove back to my hotel.

It was too easy.

We got back to my hotel and walking into the lift...

I was getting no resistance from this girl at all...

And that's when I started freaking out...

From that point on I was thinking...

She's going to ask me for money any minute now.

The reason I thought this is because a few days earlier I was speaking to another hotty and walked her to the taxi stand...

When we got there she asked me...

What's my budget lol.

For fuck sake 🤦🏻‍♂️

Because of that - I was convinced this girl would do that same.

But she never did ask for money.

And because I was soooo nervous and wondering when she's going to ask for cash...

I couldn't even get hard lolll

Poor girl.

Anyway - the point isn't to make fun of the non-hooker story...

It's about letting you know...

Going direct works without having to go 'cringe direct' and telling her you want to fuck her.

Think James Bond - not Mr. Sleaze.

The sleaze says he wants to fuck her and rarely gets anywhere because of his lack of social awareness.

James Bond says he thinks she's gorgeous and communicates he wants to fuck her with his eyes, smile, and body language.

Same answer HOWEVER...

You can get away with it a lot more of the time.

Why?

Remember the social conditioning I talked about above?

Where she's afraid of getting judged by her friends?

That's not there over text 😈

So you can be much more direct.

Girls get horny too.

A direct opener that got me laid for years was 'You're cute - I'd totally play 50 shades of grey with you'.

The girls that aren't interested won't respond.

The girls that are somewhat interested will respond and maybe give a bit of a shit test...

Which is normal and expected.

And the girls that do want to fuck - well they'll be very responsive to your opener.

This past weekend I messaged a girl saying 'I want to do so many naughty things with you'...

I banged her the next day.

So, what's the takeaway from all this?

If you're in person - you can and should go direct.

But dress it up with a bit of charm and let the sub communication do the rest.

Again - the sub communication being your eyes, smile, body language.

Over text - experiment with emoji's like 😈 or 😏

However, you don't always need them.

Test things out, be ok to get rejected and have fun with it.

Find our own style.

Maybe emoji's work for you.

Maybe certain lines get better responses.

With the above girl...

I went direct, we had a few messages back and forth and then I did my Lust Inception system on her (a full breakdown will be in the members area soon).

Hope this helps,

Much love